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Sign up, add your best photos, and tell us about yourself. Verification keeps the community safe.
Browse curated profiles and like the ones that catch your eye. When someone likes you back, it's a match!
Start a conversation in our secure messaging system and plan your first date in a safe public place.
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Go to Log in → "Forgot password?" and follow the email instructions.
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Upload a government-issued ID in Settings → Verification. Takes 24-48 hours.
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Click the three dots on any profile and select "Report". Our safety team reviews every report.
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Always meet for the first time in a public place like a café or restaurant.
Let someone know where you're going and who you're meeting.
Keep your phone charged and have a way to leave if you feel uncomfortable.
Look for the verified badge and video chat before meeting in person.
If you ever feel unsafe, contact local authorities immediately. VelvetMeet's safety team is available 24/7 at safety@velvetmeet.com.
Last updated: January 2025
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VelvetMeet collects only the information necessary to provide our dating service. We never sell your personal data to third parties. Your profile is visible to other members, but your email and payment information are never shared. You can delete your account and all associated data at any time from Settings. We use industry-standard encryption to protect your information.
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Founded in 2020, VelvetMeet was created for sophisticated singles who value authenticity, discretion, and meaningful connections. We believe that dating should be elegant, safe, and fun. Our platform combines cutting-edge technology with a human touch — our concierge team is always available to help. With over 12,000 active members and a 4.9-star rating, VelvetMeet is the premier destination for discerning adults worldwide.
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